How to Kiss A Girl (Part 1)

The conversation with the girl is going well, but eventually it has to end. Either she has to go or you have to go or you just feel you can't keep it up at the same heights anymore and need to stop before you stall. So what are the best ways closing? (A close by the way is not a Bye, it was nice meeting you, you'll have to extract something out of your interaction with the girl, either her phone-number, a promise for a new meeting, a kiss, better yet - all of those things. Here are a few examples.

Example 1

You: Why don't we continue this somewhere else and see how much we can enjoy each other's company?

In response she might offer a change of venue (if she mumbles your place or mine?, then boy! either she's real easy or you're real good, but more probably she's gonna offer a phone number so the two of you can set up a meeting later over the phone. Notice, that you didn't ASK for her phone number, it was her idea to give it to you, thus framing you in her mind very differently from when you would have asked for the number. The first instance creates in her mind a picture of I gave him my number. which must mean I like him while the second creates an opposite picture of He asked for my number. which must mean he likes me. yawn, yeah he's nice, next!

Example 2

You: So.what steps would we have to take in order to make sure we can talk again? If a change of venue is highly unlikely, this one is a more direct wake-up call for her to usher you her number.

Example 3

You: I have an intuition. and I don't know if you can imagine this as I describe it. that when we get a chance to talk without time pressures or interruptions. we'll really enjoy each other's company. and I'm wondering if there's a number where you feel comfortable having me call you?

Example 4

Let's do x together. I'll call you

But you don't have my number!

Oh that's right! (pull out a pen)

Example 5

An example of Mystery's number close (the girl is already quite eager though and the number close is a formality, but beautifully handled nevertheless: Well, when we go blading you have to wear your gear cause I love the hills. She nods so I add, for this to happen you have to ask me a question. She blurts out, can I have your number ? I say, wow you come on strong! Are you always this bold? She says, yes I act impressed and say, how bout we trade number s fair?.

A variation of the above. Mystery, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter:

You: Well now that we've set up a meeting, there's a question you need to ask me.

Girl: What?

You: Oh come on!

Girl: What's your phone number?

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How to Compliment A Girl (Part 1)

Okay... so you want to compliment a girl. That's great. I'm love telling the girl I'm seeing how sexy she is/how much I want to fuck her/how gorgeous she looks in xyz. Compliments are nice and they make everyone involved feel good So what's the problem?

The problem gentlemen is...

UNSOLICITED AND UNEARNED COMPLIMENTS.

A compliment is a gift. It's a sign of appreciation that you extend to another person. Now, I see a lot of men who want to compliment a girl. But 9/10 times, these compliments are usually because the girl is hot, or beautiful, or pretty.

This, in my book, is NOT REASON ENOUGH FOR A COMPLIMENT.

How would you feel if a girl said, "Nice bank account. You're really cool. Want my #?" You would think "WTF? Is this bitch stupid?" It would be OBVIOUS that she is giving you a compliment because something about you is OF USE to her, right? And no one wants a bullshit compliment like that.

This is the sammmeee shit that girls have to deal with 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. They get compliments ALL THE TIME and they KNOW it's because 9/10 times, the guy wants to fuck them. This makes the compliment WORTHLESS, because it is not a genuine sign of appreciation, but a manipulative TOOL.

The proper way to compliment a girl is when they've EARNED it. I don't tell my girl she's sexy when she's pulled an all-night for an exam and walks in dressed in dirty sweats, with her hair all messy and her eyes sandy as fuck. Do I still care about her? Yes. Do I still want to spend time with her? Of course. But why would I tell her she looks sexy when... she's not at that time?

About the Seduction Community

The seduction community is a loose-knit worldwide group of guys who seek to seduce the hottest woman through psychological, physical, verbal and social tactics. The seduction community was founded in the mid-80s. On the Internet, many consider the founding father to be Ross Jeffies, author of How to Get the Woman You Desire into Bed. Ross Jeffies's seduction method called "Speed Seduction" (SS) is a set of skills that draws from Neuro-linguistic Programming and other hypnotic techniques.

Another seduction guru (alias pickup artist)- Mystery first entered into seduction community in September 1998. Soon after, he developed a routine based method called the Mystery method to seduce the hottest girls. In 2001, Mystery had risen to the top pua (pick-up artist) in the seduction community and begun teaching his method in the seminars. Mystery instructed and then befriended Style, who became ultimately a guru in the seduction community himself.

During September and Octobr 2005, Style's Neil Strauss book "the Game" reached the New York Times bestsellers list. Since then, the seduction community has received an increasing amount of media attention and growing rapidly.

This blog is going to be given tips and techniques to men on how attract any girl/women. There will be newer post every day for the next 90 days.